Let’s talk authenticity for a minute. No stiff poses. No forced smiles. No turning your wedding day into one long photo shoot. Instead, let’s focus on you. After all, it’s your wedding day—you deserve images that feel like the truest version of you.
Below, I’m sharing a YouTube video that dives deeper into how I gauge energy levels throughout the day (because, yes—your energy absolutely affects your photos!). Feel free to watch, or read on for my take on keeping the vibe real and the memories alive.
Keeping It Real (and Fun!)
I want photos that capture your day, not some cookie-cutter version. The vibe, the people, the party, the emotion, and family—these are the moments that matter. But let’s be honest: if taking photos starts to feel like a chore, the pictures lose their soul. My job is to make sure we never get to that point.
Instead, I’ll be there to observe, adapt, and direct only when needed. Maybe you’re in the mood to go to that epic cliffside for some dramatic shots, or maybe you just want to grab a drink with friends and let me catch those candid smiles. Either way, I read the room (and your energy), so the photos always feel natural.
Why Energy Matters
Ever notice how you can tell if someone’s bored or tired in a photo, even if they’re smiling? That’s energy. It’s everything. If you and your partner are relaxed and excited, that will shine through. If you’re too drained or overwhelmed, that shows up, too. So let’s work with your energy, not against it.
1. Pre-Wedding Prep
In the morning, you might be full of butterflies (the good kind!). This is often when I get those intimate “getting ready” shots—hair, makeup, laughs with the bridal party, etc. If the energy is high, we’ll lean into that. If you need calm, we’ll keep it chill.
2. During the Ceremony
You’re in the moment, and so am I. This is not the time for me to ask you to “hold that pose.” I step back and document real, raw emotions. Authentic hugs, happy tears, all of it.
3. Post-Ceremony Portraits
This is usually when you’re riding that post-“I do” high. We might sneak away for some couple portraits, or if you’re on the quieter side, we’ll keep things low-key. Got a big group that loves to laugh? Let’s harness that energy with some fun, spontaneous group shots.
4. Reception & Party Time
When the dance floor is calling, I’ll capture the crazy moves, the big laughs, and those quiet moments in the corner, too. If you’re tired and need a break, I’ll step away. If you’re up for a champagne toast at sunset, let’s make it happen.
Reading Your Energy
My team and I are always thinking: What do you need right now to make this the best wedding experience possible—while still nailing those amazing photos? Sometimes, that means grabbing a quick snack and some water. Other times, it means running off to a secret spot for golden hour shots. The bottom line: I’m here to serve your vibe, not force it.
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, the best photos happen when you’re comfortable, happy, and you. My goal is to blend into the background when needed, direct when it’s helpful, and capture all those moments you’ll cherish for years to come. Because your wedding day is a celebration—not a photo shoot—and the images should remind you just how amazing it felt to be there.
So keep your energy high (or low, if that’s your style!). Dance, drink, laugh, cry, and let your authentic selves shine. I’ll be there to preserve it all, just as it happened.
Thanks for stopping by, and if you have any questions or want to chat about how to keep your wedding photos real and fun, shoot me a message. Let’s make magic together!
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